{"id":734,"date":"2010-09-15T08:02:28","date_gmt":"2010-09-15T08:02:28","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/elegantthemes.com\/preview\/DeepFocus\/?page_id=164"},"modified":"2026-10-15T22:57:22","modified_gmt":"2026-10-15T22:57:22","slug":"full-width","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/attorneymediate.com\/?page_id=734","title":{"rendered":"Biography and Services"},"content":{"rendered":"

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<\/span>Kimberly Stamatelos is an experienced Iowa divorce attorney and mediator. \u00a0She has a robust online mediation practice primarily in divorce, custody and high-conflict co-parenting. Her compassionate approach helps people in conflict maintain dignity and avoid court.<\/p>\n

Mediation:<\/strong> Kim is a native Iowan, but mediates cases nationwide on Zoom. \u00a0She has mediated many cases, trained hundreds of mediators, written on the topic of conflict resolution, and spoken at various seminars about the benefits of mediation. \u00a0She is a leader in online mediation best practices and specializes in divorce mediation, including custody mediation and divorce financial mediation.<\/p>\n

The best way to reach her is to contact her at kim@attorneymediate.com<\/strong>\u00a0 to set up a process consultation to see if her services are suited to your conflict.<\/p>\n

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Resolving Conflict Through Mediation:<\/strong><\/p>\n

Kimberly Stamatelos discusses the use of mediation to resolve conflicts.<\/a>– Listen in to a radio show in Phoenix, Arizona in 2013 where Kim was the guest.<\/p>\n

Kimberly Stamatelos was featured on the popular website<\/strong> “The Unsecret Shopper” in a feature entitled “The Unsecret Shopper Goes Shopping: Attorneys Part 2”. The article reviews several Des Moines area divorce attorneys and evaluates them using the pillars of great customer service. Here’s what they had to say about Kimberly Stamatelos:<\/p>\n

Phone answered: (It was voice-mail.) The message said to leave a message, and to go to their website, and fill out an intake form \u2013 a very cool little detail! \u00a0As cool as Kimberly Stamatelos\u2019 voice message was, she was ten times that and a bag of chips in person. \u00a0 She greeted me warmly and with a smile, by name and with a handshake as I entered her office. We sat down in the conference room. \u201cI like to just hear about what happened,\u201d Kimberly began. Empathetic, compassionate, not worrying about the process at this point \u2013 it was a fantastic way to start. I laid it all out for her, including the fact that I made enough to buy a proton accelerator, while my wife earned less than the cost of a box of Kleenex. \u201cI\u2019m glad you\u2019re doing this now instead of five years from now,\u201d she said with a huge smile, \u201cor else you\u2019d be taking care of her through the old people\u2019s home.\u201d<\/p>\n

Kimberly was very open about the crapshoot of determining alimony. \u201cThe problem with alimony is that there\u2019s no rule. I call it \u2018free-fall.\u2019\u201d We talked about the odds of the outcome being decided by a judge. \u201cWe try to keep you out of trial, because it turns your money over to strangers (judges),\u201d she explained. \u201dJudges also want mediation. They have zero tolerance about, \u2018he didn\u2019t take out the garbage,\u2019 \u2018she didn\u2019t take care of the dog.\u2019\u201d She emphasized the different personalities of the judges, that some were more desirable than others, depending on what a client wanted. \u201cJudges are people, too,\u201d she said. \u201cThey have different experiences, different backgrounds. All of that comes in to play.\u201d Unfortunately the judge we\u2019d end up with was out of our control. \u201cWe don\u2019t know who our judge is until the night before trial.\u201d Kimberly left and came back with a book that had the actual Iowa Statute that outlines the factors that go into determining alimony. \u201cLength of marriage. Age and physical health of parties. Distribution of property made. Educational level of parties. Earning capacity of parties.\u201d<\/p>\n

And a lot more. We talked about how much this was going to cost me. \u201cYour legal fees will depend on who she gets as an attorney,\u201d she said. Honest, reasonable \u2013 it was a great way to say it. I was having way too much fun talking with the very engaging Kimberly to tell her I was not some unlucky married dolt who was going to get taken to the cleaners but was instead a single secret shopper, but still a dolt. I came clean. She smiled big and laughed loud, just like I figured she would. She also wondered how she did, and was the only attorney to ask. \u201dGive me some feedback! Tell me what I can do better!\u201d Awesome job, Kimberly! Overall: Kimberly is dynamic, engaging, witty, compassionate and down to earth, someone you\u2019d love to have as your attorney, or your friend. Read the Full Review Here:\u00a0The Unsecret Shopper Goes Attorney Shopping<\/a><\/p>\n

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