{"id":766,"date":"2013-11-09T23:22:41","date_gmt":"2013-11-09T23:22:41","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/attorneymediate.com\/pages\/?page_id=766"},"modified":"2026-10-15T23:14:37","modified_gmt":"2026-10-15T23:14:37","slug":"resources","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/attorneymediate.com\/?page_id=766","title":{"rendered":"Resources"},"content":{"rendered":"<h4><span style=\"color: #800080;\">BOOKS WRITTEN BY KIMBERLY STAMATELOS, ATTORNEY AND MEDIATOR<\/span><\/h4>\n<h4><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><a style=\"color: #000000;\" href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Compassionate-Lawyer-Kimberly-J-Stamatelos\/dp\/1500104671\/ref=sr_1_1?crid=1NHQNAKZD6183&amp;dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.SiPKPMbWbH6_kd5F8arKa0u7q3OGYzjr67h2G-lyv7zyHZwti62JMzzqukqcFdF_BUjT5GoNlvlNgcr3ePe8SL6mwtExY8aGk8F8bhQPDk8qz56DPxADwY4E_QRyJmW4vQ2uu2iOoDpMetJKZ29QkJTLv-ygpr_ZQYgxNVEf1lRYFhRc1V4Noc72ub5I0buvICXb5rGwlRWQ96_phTx715c-HNwCPafH6ATKICpcWzw.83WkBY8jFzhnf6KoVtnzZ4wuMydw8A6LxcLWMUVeZ04&amp;dib_tag=se&amp;keywords=The+compassionate+lawyer&amp;qid=1792105880&amp;sprefix=the+compassionate+lawyer%2Caps%2C198&amp;sr=8-1\"><strong><em>The Compassionate Lawyer<\/em><\/strong><\/a><\/span><\/h4>\n<h4><a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Spirit-Filled-Practice-Lawyers-Journey-Jesus\/dp\/1974335992\/ref=sr_1_1?crid=1UCE1AK54A7N7&amp;dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.4uSwJ3SfH8YduEiU264gPA.q6Ep6f3XuBPQmwUxD4DqzA97yNfIsUg2d3q-F28twrc&amp;dib_tag=se&amp;keywords=The+spirit+filled+practice+stamatelos&amp;qid=1792106022&amp;sprefix=the+spirit+filled+practice+stamatelos%2Caps%2C167&amp;sr=8-1\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><em>The Spirit-Filled Practice<\/em><\/span><\/a><\/h4>\n<h4><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><a style=\"color: #000000;\" href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Compassionate-Divorce-Kimberly-Stamatelos\/dp\/B0CFCYW7DP\/ref=sr_1_1?crid=11C1NBDTXSPJL&amp;dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.Wxk06SMFCUclBiGhSC41lojXBO6hZ7ZEVbXItII_N3WfXnAoCUtApAY87JLFH7EAb-I8d6dL9wH9LTe38f5oyw.bUjGbAx3FM5HGPfNUegDw9x2jW2SyAI4zMQUoXSOcJ4&amp;dib_tag=se&amp;keywords=compassionate+divorce+stamatelos&amp;qid=1792105930&amp;sprefix=compassionate+divorce+stamatelos%2Caps%2C197&amp;sr=8-1\"><em>Compassionate Divorce<\/em><\/a><\/span><\/h4>\n<h4><span style=\"color: #800080;\">LEGAL RESOURCES:<\/span><\/h4>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.iowacourts.state.ia.us\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Iowa Courts<\/a><\/p>\n<h4><span style=\"color: #800080;\">HEALING RESOURCES<\/span><\/h4>\n<p><strong>Words of Affirmation for healing during the process of divorce or separation:<\/strong><br \/>\nI leave this relationship with grace and dignity. I know my own soul must grow in an area outside the perimeter of this relationship. No matter how painful the past, I am thankful that this venture has been part of my learning journey because it helps me to further define myself. My ability to give and receive love remains intact. My heart is healing.<br \/>\nI have tremendous capacity to love others, no matter the circumstances.\u00a0&#8211; Author: Unknown<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/attorneymediate.com\/pages\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/TheJourney-2013-12-082.pdf\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">The Journey<\/a>,\u00a0a poem by Mary Oliver<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/attorneymediate.wordpress.com\/\">Beyond Resolution, Blog<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a title=\"The Five Minute Forgiveness Tool\" href=\"http:\/\/attorneymediate.com\/pages\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/Five-Minute-Forgiveness-Tools1.pdf\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">The Five Minute Forgiveness Tool<\/a><\/p>\n<p><strong> Collaborative Divorce Article:<\/strong><br \/>\n<a href=\"http:\/\/205.209.45.153\/iabar\/IALawyer.nsf\/13ccaa12737005fd87257eca006abf85\/a48c5d6cc314079787257fbf0067d29a\/$FILE\/november-2012.pdf#page=22\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Kimberly Stamatelos talks about ending marriages respectfully through collaborative divorce<\/a>\u00a0in the November 2012 issue of The Iowa Lawyer.<\/p>\n<h4><span style=\"color: #800080;\">PARENTING RESOURCES<\/span><\/h4>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/attorneymediate.com\/new\/images\/hostilemail.pdf\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Responding to Hostile Mail<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/attorneymediate.com\/new\/images\/ParallelParentingForHighConflictFamilies.pdf\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Parallel Parenting<\/a><strong><br \/>\n<\/strong><\/p>\n<h4><span style=\"color: #800080;\">FINANCIAL RESOURCES<\/span><\/h4>\n<p><strong>To figure out your monthly expenses:<br \/>\n<\/strong><a href=\"http:\/\/attorneymediate.com\/new\/images\/idfa.pdf\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Expenses sheet<\/a><\/p>\n<p><strong>Child Support Calculator:<br \/>\n<\/strong><a href=\"http:\/\/www.iowasupportmaster.com\/childsupport\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">www.iowasupportmaster.com\/childsupport<\/a><br \/>\n(Rough estimate only )<\/p>\n<p><strong>To determine a value of your car:\u00a0<\/strong><br \/>\n<a href=\"http:\/\/www.kbb.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Kelly Blue Book<\/a><\/p>\n<p><strong>Credit Score Information:<\/strong><a href=\"http:\/\/attorneymediate.com\/new\/images\/CreditScore.pdf\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><br \/>\n32 Facts About Your Credit Score<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>BOOKS WRITTEN BY KIMBERLY STAMATELOS, ATTORNEY AND MEDIATOR The Compassionate Lawyer The Spirit-Filled Practice Compassionate Divorce LEGAL RESOURCES: Iowa Courts HEALING RESOURCES Words of Affirmation for healing during the process of divorce or separation: I leave this relationship with grace and dignity. 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